I was recently dissecting the word "behave." In and of itself, it's not my favorite word or concept, but once I broke it down to the "Be" and the "Have," it sat with me much better. And here's what I've come up with.
The long and short of it is, who you "be" becomes what you "have." Who are you these days? What do you stand for? What are your lines in integrity or values? Brene Brown shares an epic list in her book "Dare to Lead," including over 107 value ideas.
When you decide which 2 to for align most with your soul, hopefully they will become more richly integrated into the fabric with which you function. Then, see if you don't start receiving things, adventures and people in your life that build you up even more!
Hope that adds a much more vivid, exciting, and empowering meaning to "be-have" to!